Stone masonry is analogous to life. You need a sturdy base, good backing, lots of time, love and patience to invest. If done well, it will hold for centuries, and impact generations to come. The years will take their toll, and some parts may need to be re-set, but the overall beauty improves with age.
We capped off our summer masonry projects by building a stonewall that kept us busy every weekend well into the fall months. We are never short of stone on the property, and we searched high and low for about a month, gathering and carrying them by wheelbarrow load to the parking pad out front (Randy was the muscle behind the wheels). We even brought up the last of the big stones we had left in the basement. He devised a ramp and together we rolled those beauties up the steep steps and into the sunlight, using a hand truck and good old muscle.
The chimney demolition project had left us quite literally with a ton of bricks in a heap at the side of the house. We wondered what we would do with them all. Randy had the bright idea of using the broken ones to back the stone wall. So, the sorting began. The broken bricks were loaded into the wheelbarrow and brought out front with the mounting pile of stone. The intact bricks were carried the short distance to the back patio area that is taking shape. This is on our outdoor list for next summer.
We set a straight line to mark our wall and the process began. I started at the lowest point to build the retaining wall that would hold the truckloads of soil we had brought in to level the front yard. Crushed stone for the base, and then some hefty stones for the facing, and brick after brick for the back.
The level, chisels and ball peen hammer have all become my friends.

The wall is about two feet deep and measures about two and a half feet tall, then rounds the corner and slims down as it makes its way up the slight incline to the front walkway.
I like puzzles. Always have. Randy on the other hand, does not have the patience for them. So while I was building the wall, he was cutting trees and stacking wood. We are slowly clearing the hillside just above the house, as the trees there are close to and tower over us. Now, Randy has cut a lot of trees in his lifetime and is adept and spot on accurate in knowing where they will fall. That is, until now. One tree in particular was not cooperating, and decided to fall in the opposite direction. Thank goodness it got hung up in another tree, and did not complete its trajectory. It had been headed for our power line, the parking pad, our cars, a pile of stone and me. Long story short, after trying to move that tree on our own, our neighbors happened to drive by and see our dilemma. They charged in with a “come-along” and a hefty rope which worked like a charm. They were gracious enough to leave behind these tools for our future use. Crisis averted!
I was a weekend stone wall warrior for just over a month, with time in between spent on fun, of course. I believe in a life in balance, and never want to be a slave to the work here, because it is endless. Here’s what we’ve been doing for fun… We hosted my brother Jim’s family and spent a phenomenal day on the Upper Delaware River canoeing and kayaking the most beautiful stretch of river I have ever seen. We put in above Equinunk, PA that day and took out below Long Eddy, NY. Multiple bald eagles were spotted and one golden eagle, a first for me. Randy and I also did some hiking and foraging for mushrooms locally. They have been plentiful this year, with all the rain we’ve had. Randy is the master in this department.
We enjoyed black trumpets and hen of the woods thus far, and we now have mason jars full of dehydrated mushrooms to enjoy for months ahead. We spent an afternoon with friends harvesting hops at a local farm.
With an air strip on the property, the neighbor and local aviator brought out his 1935 Cub and offered us all rides. Randy got in line with a half-dozen others and was treated to aerial views of the surrounding area which included Milanville and our home.
Out of all the adults and children the pilot took up that day, he later commented that Randy’s enthusiasm during the ride was the most fun to watch. “Like a big kid”, he said. October brought us a last-minute weekend camping and hiking trip to Mt. Cardigan in New Hampshire, thanks to my brother Jim.
Two weeks later we were in Portland Maine and then Leominster, Massachusetts where we celebrated Randy’s parent’s sixtieth wedding anniversary. In addition, we’ve hosted family and friends twice during the autumn months.
What a beautiful life we are building together, one stone, one brick, one layer at a time. I am so proud of the stonewall and all of the masonry we have done on the grounds in recent months.
We finished with grass seed and straw and the lawn is already coming in nicely. Fall has arrived with a chill in the air. The flower beds have all been trimmed back and our sights have turn inward. We have been preparing to participate in our first local Makers Markets being held during the coming holiday season. An array of items are in the works. They will consist mostly of Randy’s woodwork, but some recycled glassware and table linens will add color and texture to our wares.
All are hand-made, right here in our home. We hope to open a shop in the spring, and will renovate the last of the unfinished rooms on the ground floor this winter to serve as the studio. Randy’s photography will grace the walls and be on sale, as well. We have spent months considering what to name the business and have settled with something we both feel good about. It will be a new chapter for us, and fun to see where it leads.
A tasteful sign will be placed on the lawn out front, just above the curve in the stonewall. We decided on Milanville Wood & Co. and if you are on instagram, you can see some photos of our products there @milanvillewoodandco.
If you haven’t come to visit us yet, please do!


Randy and I were ready with shovels, rakes and a wheelbarrow. We worked to spread it by hand and were done by 10:30!
At the corner, we raised the walkway and the yard about a foot! The purpose of doing all of this is two fold, first leveling out the yard and walkway, and second reducing the distance from the porch to the ground. Current building code requires no more than 30 inches, or the porch rails will need to be re-installed if ever we need a building permit for some future project.
We dug up stone after stone, shoveled for days, hauling wheelbarrow loads of gravel, and sweating like crazy. A layer of sand was placed on top of the gravel before resetting each stone to give it a buffer to avoid future heaving from frost. We ran out of gravel after turning the corner, which happened right about the time we were set to go on a vacation. So we took a break to do some traveling and then hosted a visit from Randy’s parents and one of his brothers.
We needed to hire some outside help to take on these projects, as they were way beyond our abilities. We had been trying to these jobs up for some time, but they just weren’t coming together. As life has it, both jobs surprisingly fell into place within the same two day span. Literally, the day Randy’s parents arrived, Ron, the man hired to take the chimney down, called to say that he had an unexpected break in work and could come two days later (he had us scheduled for late September). Literally, as Randy’s parents were pulling away, Ron was pulling up. He arrived with a helper named Dave. Both young men, were comfortable on the roof, and climbed the ladders without a problem. They went up to take a look and then went off to pick up supplies and while they were gone, Randy and I started to demo the ceiling in the attic so we could have greater access to the chimney all the way to the roof line. It was the original chimney, which interestingly had been built to avoid the attic window. It came straight up through the floor, took a 45 degree right turn to the under the window, followed the window vertically and then took another 45 degree left turn to exit the roof at the center of the peak. Prior owners had chosen to prop it up from the inside, rather than repair it, and the wooden framing was holding thousands of pounds of bricks. Talk about a stressful job! We had concerns that the chimney above the roof line might just fall down if we bumped it. It would need reinforcement before they touched a thing.
We found the first squirrel nests in the chimney at the point were the chimney started to bend. Below that, in the straight piece were the bee hives. Layers and layers of them, all neatly sandwiched in there. It was a mess! I saved three of the deepest and oldest honeycombs, which were just too beautiful to discard, and still nearly perfect. Below that, the chimney was open, with no obstructions. We took it down to the the level of the floor, where the mortar is still firm and in tact.
Also found was the rest of the original wallpaper. I think I mentioned this in a previous post. Now we can piece together what was one complete roll to see the beautiful original wallpaper. We will cap the chimney at the attic floor and leave the remnants in the lower floors in order to preserve the history of its presence. On day two, Ron and Dan returned to patch the hole in the roof.
He climbed that tree with great finesse, cut the limbs one at a time from the bottom up and then from the top down, began cutting the trunks (there were two) into lengths of six feet or so, until he was done. Half way through the job it started to rain. Then it POURED!



When all the roots were gone, we would level the soil below, lay a thick level layer of tiny gravel and then lift and lay the stone back in place. Randy worked the level, and again with the crowbar and the shovels, together we added more of that tiny crushed stone here and there from under the edges, finally securing and setting the stone. One at a time, over the course of a week or so, we worked together (and sometimes Randy worked alone).
One of the stones had cracked down the middle, long before our time, so we decided to take the broken halves out completely, and set them off to the side to be taken away later. This would shorten the walkway to seven stones, and seemed to be a perfect solution. Now needed to fix that last stone…
He worked quickly, carefully and with a consistent rhythm until his hands went numb and he needed a short break. Then he would start again.
One corner had fractured horizontally, just below the surface, leaving that spot thin, so we needed to be very careful when lifting and moving it.
It took us some time to measure the height of each of the three remaining stones, do the calculations, dig out and level the base and set those two cracked stones.

It sat in place nearly perfectly and we made a few minor adjustments to give it a final resting place. We are thrilled with the results!!


We later added marigolds to make it extra unappetizing to the deer who have not touched it…yet (fingers crossed).
Tomatoes, peppers, cucumbers and beans are all growing well! We fenced the little garden with 7 foot deer netting, and I planted some perennial flower seeds in the tiny bed we had created next to the stone foundation, in front of the barn. Randy is in charge of the vegetable garden, with far more experience here. Next to the kitchen we also have a little herb garden that has basil, parsley, cilantro, sage and lettuces. Rhubarb was planted along the front of the screened porch. There are too many plants and seeds to mention, mostly perennials, and they are all doing well. Of course, it is hard to know where to plant everything, so as the summer progresses, we will surely be moving things here and there. The joys of gardening!



The sap began to run.















His available work time became a scarcity come September. He spent an afternoon with Randy wiring an antique dining room light fixture and outlet. The old outlets were all mixed up after we had re-wired the kitchen, as they were connected. Apparently, with old wiring, if you update portions of a line and not all of it, it messes with the polarity of the rest of the electric. We could plug the vacuum into the outlet in the living room and the kitchen lights would go on. Not good! We had stopped using them completely months ago, and had been dining by candlelight. Romantic, but not so practical. We found the fixture last summer in MA during one of our visits to New England. Now there is light!




He first tapes the paper to the ceiling over a hole and traces the empty space. The paper is taken down and then cut, creating a template which is applied to sheet rock, traced and finally cut. The sheet rock then fits into the hole like a puzzle piece. A perfect fit, later to be plastered, sanded, plastered and sanded. I know the drill, as I assisted as much as my time would allow. This went on for about two weeks and what a mess it made! We did our best to keep the plastic covering the doorway, but the dust followed us out, and we were covered with it (yes, we wore masks, too). Trying to mix plaster and clean up indoors, without making a mess is near impossible. I cleaned it all up one Sunday, to find that Monday evening when I arrived home it was as if I had never cleaned. I gave up and decided to just live with the mess until the plastering was done. Yesterday, we put the final coat of paint on the ceiling and walls, replaced the radiator and moved the furniture back in. What a treat it was to sit and enjoy the beautiful space for the first time, on Christmas Eve!
I spent one fall day building a small stone wall to create a planter for assorted bulbs given to us by friends. In cleaning up around the barn, we found and unearthed another bluestone walkway buried beneath inches of sod. These stones are different, very long, skinny and more practical than the ones out front. We bought and set up a compost barrel and found a new spot for our laundry line on the back hillside. Our neighbor Jay handed on to us an almost new box spring and mattress, which we set up in one of our guest rooms. Randy moved the water pump in the basement, so that it was far enough away from the new electrical panel in the basement to meet the electrical code. We passed the electrical inspection. All that, plus we bought and refinished a piece of furniture for the bathroom and raised the roof in the workshop, out back (I may have mentioned that previously).
Oh yes, and we we painted the front door, late in October which was quite the process! The door had been red, and wanted to stay red. The first coat of white primer turned pink. We switched primers and the second coat of white primer turned a paler shade of pink. Pretty, but not what we wanted. We had to buy an oil based white to cover the pink, and then hallelujah the door was white, which could then be painted over with the indigo blue we had chosen. Gorgeous!
I witnessed the soft white underbelly of the second squirrel launch from the gutter above the window and land softly in the tree. So graceful, so cute…. NOT. I was painting the trim on the archway in the living room that day, and I watched about six different squirrels using the trunk of that tree like a roadway, up and down, up and down, their mouths filled with leaves. Randy put three pieces of silver flashing around the trunk the next day (he calls it an art installation in stainless). Boy were those squirrels in a panic when they couldn’t get back up the tree. The chapter closes with all critters gone, and us sleeping soundly through the silent nights. Now we rest. We have promised each other we will not start any new projects for a few weeks. We are both exhausted and spent.
There is an art to slowing down to appreciate all things. It takes a conscious effort for me to slow down and just be. This morning, brought our first snowfall. As I sit here writing in the early morning, I have watched the sunrise over the river valley. A stunning scene of winter’s unfolding. I am reminded. It has been a long time since I have sat down to write for this blog. I love to write, and yet, I have left my love for another. What have I been doing? It seems life’s To Do list has been holding me hostage. It is not just this old house. It has been all that life demands. I could make a list of what I have been doing, to quantify my work and worth, but why? It would be much like every other person’s list of things that keep us busy, occupied, and unconscious. My intention this morning is to break the cycle. I wish to make more time to simply be.
How will I accomplish this? Here are some of the tried and true practices that work for me. Waking early. Spiritual connection. Time outdoors. Meditation. Exercise (I love to swim). Mindfulness. Living in the moment. Eating well. Moderation in all things. Sleeping at least eight hours a night. Fellowship with friends and loved ones. Slowing down enough to notice the beauty all around me. I know there is more, but for now, this is enough. A start. The essence of what I need. To remember that at any given moment I have enough, I am enough, I have done enough, there is enough. Enough. Always enough. Everywhere. I can be at peace if I connect to myself and remember.
The eight panes from the two bedrooms up the narrow and steep back stairway we left up there in a closet for cleaning at some later point (This tidbit is important for reasons which I will later reveal). These large glass panes sat in storage all summer and late in August, when the first cold snap hit, I was motivated to dig them out and the washing began. First I had to carefully carry those enormous panes of framed glass out to the back yard where I used a masonry mixing troth to scrub them with warm soapy water, a sponge and a scrub brush. I even went so far as to use a Brillo pad on the rough and oxidized aluminum to bring them back to a smooth silver finish. One at a time, I lugged them from the wash basin to the table and benches we had in the side yard. There, the hose rinsed them off and the sun and wind dried them. Once dry, I carried them to the front porch to await a final cleaning, usually done the next day. One at a time, I washed each side of the glass with window cleaner, paper towels and a razor blade to scrape off all the old specks and drips of paint that had accumulated over the years. My parents sent us a package of microfiber cloths which made this final phase of cleaning easier. Then came the arduous task of putting them back up.
Another homeowner tip… when taking storm windows out, mark them so that you know where they go when its time to put them back up. I had to think it all through. Not only were there different heights, but widths as well. Some frames were raw aluminum, and others were painted white. It was a sorting and matching nightmare! I gave up in frustration after the first attempt, and decided to give it some time to re-consider how I was going to approach this seemingly impossible task. That first weekend, I had washed the window pains randomly, based on what was easiest to reach in the storage room. There had been a mixed variety of sizes and framing. One evening after work, I took a walk around the house to look at the windows and realized that the first floor windows were significantly taller than the rest, so the extra tall panes would fit there. Most of the first and second floor windows were the same width, but at the back of the house, the windows were all narrower. Then I noticed the runners for the storm windows were either raw aluminum or painted white, just like the frames on the panes. I had that “A-HA” moment when it all came into clarity and it was smooth sailing from there. What I did from then on was to sort the window panes before I washed them. Once matched up with others of the same width, height and finish, I could easily find where they belonged. The physical task of carrying them carefully into the house and in many cases up the stairs, was the next challenge. Not of brain power, this was a challenge of strength, dexterity, coordination and teamwork.
At this point I needed Randy’s assistance. He would stop what he was doing in the basement, climb the stairs and jump in to do his part. He was using WD-40, a soft mallet and a bit of muscle on the actual windows, some of which had been painted shut for years. This old house has weights in the windows, many of which whose ropes had long ago dry rotted, tattered and broken off. This fact does not matter too much to us, except for the small detail that once the window is open, it will often come slamming down, if it is no longer weighted or propped open. So… one of us had to hold the window open, while the other slid the storm window into place. Otherwise, we risked having the window come crashing down on us in the midst of trying to get the storm window in. We promised each other for safety sake, we would not try to do it alone and together, we carefully slid the sparkling storm windows back into place.
Remember the eight windows that were safely tucked away in the closet up the back stairs? Well, at some point in the last six months they were moved and placed next to a doorway up there. One night, after dark, Randy went up the back stairs for something he had stored up there. Now, there are dainty old light fixtures up there that are accessible only from pull strings, but you have to be standing directly below them to reach them. So, in the dark, on his way into one of the rooms, he bumped into the storm windows. I did not hear the crash, but I heard what came afterward. He was exhausted, stunned and infuriated. It was not a pretty scene!! There was broken glass everywhere. In the end, it looked and sounded much worse than it really was. Only three of the eight windows were actually broken. After the cleanup was complete, our local glass company was more than happy to help. In total, it took us four full weekends to complete the job, not including the first effort. In the end, every door and window has an upper and lower storm window, with the exception of just two missing panes. Best of all, no one got hurt! Between the tuned up furnace, the storm windows and the blown in insulation that was here when we bought the house, it is now free of drafts. We could feel the difference right away, just walking through the rooms, which is hard to describe… like the air is wrapped up tight around us.
So, not only is the house warmer, but every single window has a clear and breathtaking view. The creek, the hillside and a cornfield sprawling toward the river border us on all sides. With every day the view changes, as flora, fauna and the climate transition with the times. Last weekend, Randy spied a bobcat on the move, out an upstairs window. He came bolting down the stairs, out the front door, and onto the front lawn. I happened to be returning from the Post Office next door when I saw him. We both froze, and watched it move out into the open, catch our eye and then scurry off in search of cover.
What view will we take in next?
Everything we build in life needs a strong foundation. Be it our childhood development, family life, education, relationships, career, even our health. A house, of course is no different. This old house was built on stone. We were in love with the foundation from the start. Before we installed the new oil tanks we wanted to seal it with something to keep the moisture out. We were only focused on one corner, where the oil tanks stand. Simple, right? Starting with hammers and chisels, we chipped away at the crumbling limestone coating that had been applied years ago. The three foot wide walls are perfectly vertical and straight on all sides. We chipped, scraped and dug out mortar from between all the rocks, and using an air compressor blew out any dust left behind before re-pointing. I kept saying “Are you sure we should be taking out so much of the old mortar?” and Randy kept assuring me the more of the crumbly mortar we took out, the stronger the new joints would be.
We hauled out the crumbly debris and began to mix hydraulic cement to fill in all of the spaces we had cleared. Randy found a “Marshall” mortar bag that looks like a giant pastry bag (Marshall was the name of his beloved dog). It worked like a charm and we developed a system that worked. Randy would mix the cement in a five gallon bucket with his drill, using an attachment that looks like a giant beater. I poured in the dry cement until it was just the right consistency and then we would race down the bulkhead steps. I would go first, and grab the Marshall bag out of our rinse bucket. Randy would follow me down the steps with the bucket of heavy cement. With a gloved hand, I would fill the bag while he held it open, and off he would go, squeezing that bag with every ounce of might he had. I would follow with a sponge, sealing every crevice, smoothing the cement and cleaning off the stones. Once the process was complete, we would put the Marshall bag back into the rinse bucket of water, to soften the already hardening cement and back up the steps we went. Over and over and over again.

d Randy started in on the piping for the tanks. He was under the advisement of a local plumber who left Randy his two 24 inch monkey wrenches and a list of the supplies needed. I think Randy made a trip to the plumbing supply store once a day for about a week. Measuring, cutting, joining, leveling, cranking, adjusting and sealing until the job was done. The two tanks were joined together by a two inch pipe so that when the first tank is full, the second tank takes in the overflow. There is a two inch intake pipe with a vent pipe that is 1 and a quarter inch. Apparently this makes the filler whistle blow at a high pitch so that when the oil company fills the tank, the whistle blows to alert them that the tanks are full. Next came the coated copper fuel line, the filter and the safety shutoff valve, to connect the tanks to the furnace.
We made a few trips to a local gas station and poured in twenty gallons of home heating fuel. No leaks! On a side note, if ever transporting fuel in the back of your car, remember to place gas tanks in a spot where they won’t tip over on windy back country roads. We forgot to do this, I drove too fast and my car still has the lingering smell of diesel fuel.








